Email security settings

Hi, I have alsoI received the same security message and have been trying every which way but loose to get my email programs to work with your  new pop numbers. They do not work with the cox.net emails. They do work and pop over with the gmail program using the same settings as requested by cox. But your cox email program does not work with any of my email programs of which some I've had since 2002 and have worked fine with no troubles and which I have paid for to use. Please fix this problem. Again, I can get gmail popped over to my email program but not any of the cox.net email programs I have. I have been with cox cable since it started. This is like the last straw. Nothing is working. I followed all instructions and enabled SSL and everything needed. Cox's Pop3 does not work with 465/995 Thanks.  ~Rose