Just an update, the tech guy (tier 2 tech) came yesterday, I wasn't home but my wife was and I was communicating with him over the phone and told him what has been happening. He found something was wrong with the ethernet cable that connects my modem to the router. One end of the cable RJ45 was loosing contact with the wire. When he tried to move the cable from the back of the modem the connection between modem and router would cut off indicated by the amber/red LED light on the router.
I used an ethernet cable tester and it confirmed that it was indeed the RJ45 had lost contact with the wire. So I then replaced the RJ45 and still using the same ethernet cable. Used the ethernet tester again and it showed there was good continuity in all wires.
Thinking that this was causing my connection problem, I told myself I dont need this new modem so I put the old modem back and called Cox to have it setup again and everything was working fine.
Then this morning, again the internet went down! I am back to the same issue. Modem and router showed no LED light errors. I checked modem logs and showed that channel 9 still has high uncorrectables and my SNR is running at 34db at the lowest.
I put the new modem back and I will have to see if this continues to happen.