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Ive been having the same issue as your and I am from San Diego also. The past week I gave Haste a try and it fixes these packet loss issues I am having.
You can give the program a trial and see if it works out for you. I know this is not a real fix but I love to game and I needed to find a solution since Cox won't fix these issues for a very long time.
I've heard of it, and I'm looking for a permanent solution, are you seriously paying $15 a month for it or you just doing the 14-day trial?