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How to I set up the acceptation in COX to allow FX Luxor app join my network so I can run my outdoor lights by an app? The COX router is not allowing the Amazon Web Server to see my system. I had the same thing with our security camera and had to pay a technician to come and program the COX router so my camera system was able to be seen. I am now adding another app that I need to see and COX is blocking technology.
First, try disabling Advanced Security. See link on how. Second, try turning the firewall to medium or low. Couldn't find instructions for that but should be somewhere on 192.168.0.1 . Last, have you setup port forwarding on https://wifi.cox.com/network/advanced-settings ?