I always recommend a separate modem and router. The gateways Cox sells/rents are dumbed down for ease of support. As has been said here, gateways are for customers who want to plug in a device and have Cox support everything, including their WiFi connection. If you are not at all technical, the gateway may be a good option. The pros for separate units are:
- Some more advanced functions available with a router are disabled in a gateway.
- You can update the firmware for a separate router when released by the manufacturer. With a gateway, Cox updates the firmware after they approve it, which means you may never get firmware updates released by the manufacturer.
- Can be more difficult to isolate problems since with a gateway you can't separate the modem function from the router.
- If you want to upgrade, you can upgrade just the modem or just the router. No need to replace both.
A good choice is the Arris SB6183 (16x4) or SB6190 (32x8) modem, both Cox approved up to Ultimate paired with a Netgear Night or Asus "ac" router.