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Can't send email all of a sudden - complains about domain - mail server responded: 5.1.0 sender rejected. CXSNDR
... use Thunderbird - no changes to my account or TBird settings.
Can send from webmail and gmail to hav@hav.com but reply fails with the error.
Had support send me mail to my cox addr directly, WAS able to reply to that one (which means I was replying From: hav@hav.com)
ok - problem seemed to resolve itself ... working again now
