Thanks Tecknowhelp,
Thanks for the suggestions. Unfortunately, they don't seem to help. Allow me to explain a little further (better?) and maybe you can give some additional guidance.
First, the the chat I "listened" to, was whoever is at the other end of the COX chat line that pops up whenever you get on their web site for help. I agree, they didn't seem to know what they were "talking" about.
Second, I have now learned (figured out) how to check the IP address against those that are COX. That is useful for sending to the "right" address,but my problem is I an unable to send the concern to ANY address. I have tried sending the incoming e-mail as a forward and as an attachment. I have tried just pasting the headers into a new message and sending that that. I have tried sending the messages to COX (abuse and phishing) and to just the related security elements of the spoofed companies (in accordance with their security directions on their web sites).
In every case I am frustrated by COX because they reject the e-mail. The rejection error states the message is "too large", when it clearly is not, being well under the 64KB limit suggested below. The suggestion from COX was that the message was being rejected because they "knew" it was SPAM or phishing, hence they didn't want it in their system nor did they need it to research.
OK, I can maybe understand that a bit, but if it is true, why did they allow it to come to me in the first place. I am diligent and do NOT click on that stuff, but many of these messages are pretty well done and I'm sure some folks DO click on the false links. Plus, just because COX know this particular message is in the system, the spoofed company may not. And, naturally, I foolishly think someone may like to take action to try to kill some of this nonsense.
So, the bottom line is how can I get these notifications through to COX and the spoofed companies?
Thanks again for your efforts to provide some clarity for me.